Introduction
Prophet Luqman (also known as Luqman the Wise) عليه السلام is one of the most intriguing and inspiring figures in the Quran. Though not much is known about his external life, the Quran immortalizes him through the timeless wisdom he imparted to his son — guidance that remains profoundly relevant for every era.
Surah Luqman (Chapter 31) presents his teachings on:
- parenting
- character
- humility
- moral discipline
- social behavior
- gratitude
- spiritual awareness
In a world filled with noise, distraction, and confusion, Luqman’s words offer clarity and grounding. This article explores the Quranic wisdom of Luqman and how his guidance can illuminate the modern Muslim’s path.
1. Luqman Was Given Divine Wisdom
Before presenting his advice, Allah affirms Luqman’s elevated spiritual status:
“And indeed, We granted Luqman wisdom: ‘Be grateful to Allah.’”
(Surah Luqman 31:12)
This teaches:
- Wisdom is a gift from Allah
- Gratitude is the first step toward insight
- True wisdom is not limited to prophets or scholars — Allah grants it to the righteous
Luqman’s entire legacy begins with gratitude.
2. Gratitude as the Foundation of Spiritual Life
Allah highlights the core of Luqman’s wisdom:
“Whoever is grateful, is grateful for their own benefit.”
(31:12)
Lessons:
- Gratitude increases blessings (14:7)
- Gratitude protects the heart from arrogance
- Gratitude helps believers see trials with clarity
- Spiritual growth begins with awareness of Allah’s favors
Luqman teaches that gratitude is not merely a feeling but a worldview.
3. The First Advice: Pure Tawheed
Luqman begins his counsel by addressing the most important truth:
“O my son, do not associate anything with Allah. Indeed, shirk is a great injustice.”
(31:13)
Lessons:
- Parenting begins with developing spiritual identity
- Tawheed (belief in Allah alone) is the anchor of a meaningful life
- Associating partners with Allah corrupts the heart and mind
- Spiritual clarity protects against confusion and misguidance
Luqman prioritizes the soul before behavior.
4. Respect and Kindness Toward Parents
Although Luqman advises his son, Allah adds a divine instruction:
“Be grateful to Me and to your parents.”
(31:14)
And:
“Do not obey them if they strive to make you associate others with Me, but accompany them in this world with kindness.”
(31:15)
Lessons:
- Obedience to parents is essential
- Kindness is required even when disagreeing
- Boundaries can coexist with respect
- Dignity toward parents reflects dignity toward Allah
Luqman’s guidance builds emotionally healthy families.
5. Accountability Before Allah
He reminds his son that nothing escapes Allah’s knowledge:
“Even if it is the weight of a mustard seed, hidden in a rock, the heavens, or the earth — Allah will bring it forth.”
(31:16)
Lessons:
- Allah’s knowledge is absolute
- Good and bad deeds, even the smallest, have consequences
- Self-awareness builds integrity
- A believer behaves ethically whether seen or unseen
This verse cultivates moral responsibility.

6. Establishing Salah: The Heart of a Disciplined Life
Luqman tells his son:
“Establish prayer.”
(31:17)
Lessons:
- Salah is the foundation of faith
- Prayer builds discipline, humility, and spiritual focus
- Salah strengthens patience during hardship
- It protects the heart from moral decay
No wisdom is complete without devotion.
7. Commanding Good and Forbidding Wrong — With Balance
Luqman continues:
“Command what is right, forbid what is wrong.”
(31:17)
Lessons:
- Moral responsibility extends to society
- Advice should be wise, compassionate, and timely
- Believers uplift their surroundings through righteousness
Islam is a faith that improves character and communities.
8. Patience: The Core of Wisdom
Luqman concludes the previous verse:
“…and be patient over what befalls you. Indeed, that is of the matters requiring determination.”
(31:17)
Lessons:
- Patience is necessary for carrying out good
- Patience is needed when facing opposition
- Patience protects the believer from reacting emotionally
- Strength lies in endurance, not aggression
Patience is the key to success in personal and spiritual life.
9. Humility in Behavior and Character
Luqman then warns against arrogance:
“Do not turn your cheek away from people (in contempt), nor walk on the earth with pride.”
(31:18)
Lessons:
- Humility is the hallmark of wisdom
- Arrogance destroys relationships
- Manners reflect inner faith
- Even accomplishments must not lead to pride
Islam values conduct as much as belief.
10. Balanced Behavior and Gentle Speech
Luqman advises:
“Be moderate in your pace and lower your voice. Indeed, the ugliest of voices is the braying of a donkey.”
(31:19)
Lessons:
- Moderation is a virtue
- Loudness is not strength — wisdom lies in calmness
- Communication reflects character
- Believers carry themselves with dignity and gentleness
This guidance is deeply relevant in today’s noisy, impatient world.
11. Luqman’s Parenting Approach: A Model for Today
Luqman’s style teaches:
- speak with love
- guide gently
- correct wisely
- prioritize spiritual identity
- build humility and gratitude
- nurture emotional intelligence
Modern parenting often focuses on academic success and worldly skills. Luqman reminds us that character is the true foundation of success.
12. Applying Luqman’s Wisdom in Modern Life
1. Build a foundation of tawheed in your home
Make Allah central in daily conversation.
2. Practice gratitude daily
Write three blessings each night.
3. Be kind to parents — even during disagreements
Kindness is non-negotiable.
4. Maintain moral accountability
Remember that Allah sees everything.
5. Make prayer the anchor of your day
Schedule life around Salah, not the other way around.
6. Encourage righteousness and respect
Be a positive force in your home and community.
7. Walk and speak with humility
Strength expressed through calm, steady character.
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Conclusion: Luqman’s Wisdom — A Light for Every Era
The advice of Prophet Luqman is concise yet transformative. His guidance calls believers to:
- gratitude
- humility
- discipline
- righteousness
- spiritual awareness
In a fast-paced world, his words offer grounding, clarity, and deep emotional guidance.
Whoever embraces Luqman’s wisdom builds a life rooted in faith, character, and balance.
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